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Fisting
(this is a compilation of fisting info found
on the net)
Some women enjoy vaginal fisting (having all or most
of their lover's hand in their vagina). This is DEFINITELY
a case where you should proceed only with your partner's
active and ongoing encouragement and within her comfort
level. If you two would like to give vaginal fisting
a try, then I'd recommend first reading Deborah Addington's
book A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting.
However, the basic technique is as follows: with your
hand palm up (and your lover on her back or on all fours)
bring your fingers and thumb together to form something
that looks like a duck bill. With massaging, and possibly
gentle twisting motions, slowly tease your hand into
her vagina. If your anatomies allows it, once you get
past the third knuckles your fingers will start to gently
and naturally curve back to form a fist. The whole procedure
takes time and plenty of trust, but the women and men
who can take a whole hand vaginally or anally often
claim that it leads them to transcendent, ecstatic altered
states (read Trust: The Handballing Book by Bert Herrman
for a discussion of anal fisting, if that is your area
of interest).
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ANAL
FIST FUCKING
In
fist fucking the whole hand (and even the forearm) goes
up the rectum. Some people seem to like this: they say
it produces very erotic sensations of their internal
organs. Although fist fucking can be very painful, it's
not necessarily an S&M (sadomasochistic) action;
any two people can get into it who want to. You can
do fist fucking because the anus and the rectum are
so remarkably flexible. You start by bunching the fingertips
together and inserting them, lubricated, in the anus.
Then you slowly work the fingers up and in, as the anal
sphincter relaxes. Finally, if the anus relaxes enough,
you'll be able to fit the whole hand (with the fingertips
still pressed together). Once in, you can clench the
fist and slide your arm in too. Of course, before you
can be fist fucked, you must really want it and be able
to relax your anus. Fist fucking can be very harmful
if it bruises the prostate gland, causing infection,
or irritates anal sores you already have, or pierces
the rectum itself. If the rectum is broken, it's easy
to get peritonitis, an infection inside the stomach
cavity, which can be fatal without quick medical treatment.
So, if you want to do &x0e%fist fucking, be cautions.
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Skud's
vaginal fisting tips
[NB: the hints below apply primarily to vaginal fisting.
Use your own sense to figure out which ones don't apply
to anal fisting, or consult someone who's more into
it than I am.]
0.
The obvious one, which everyone has probably already
heard: use lots of lube. If you're not swimming in it,
if you're not wiping it off the walls and ceiling next
morning, you need more. You cannot have too much lube
when you're starting out fisting.
1.
Go slowly. This should be obvious. Just *how* slowly
varies, but if you're having difficulty you should plan
to spend an hour or maybe more.
2.
Don't try it just after other penetrative sexual activity.
The vaginal walls swell up and generally make it more
difficult.
3.
Position can make a difference. I've sometimes found
it easier to use a "doggy" position or just
lying on the front with a pillow or two under the hips.
Somehow that just makes things fit better.
4.
Relax. Breathe. Zone out on the 'dorphins. If you're
not used to doing this, learn some non-BDSM meditation
techniques as practice.
5.
Maintain eye contact if possible. You can get a *lot*
of communication happening that way, and even the tiniest
twinge will be communicated without words.
6.
I sometimes find that a twisting motion works well.
Either twist the hand slowly through about 90 degrees
while pushing, or just turn the hand in various directions
during the process. The vagina stretches differently
along different axes, and if you're working constantly
with the thumb pointing "up" (i.e. towards
the clitoris) which is the most usual position, you
won't get any widthwise stretching until you get to
that difficult point near the heel of the thumb. Intentionally
stretching "across" the vagina in the leadup
to this point will make it less traumatic when you get
there.
7.
Naughty non-politically-correct suggestion: have a drink
or two first. This will help you relax. Use your judgment
here; I wouldn't recommend getting drunk or even tipsy,
and I wouldn't necessarily recommend this for other
play, nor necessarily with any partner.
8.
If your current partner is male, he probably has relatively
large hands. If it's within the scope of your sexuality,
you might like to try it with a woman first just to
get the hang of it.
9.
If you're not using gloves, do. Not just for the safety
aspect, but because they make it smoother.
  
Don't rush it! - start modestly, by using only a couple
of fingers....
  
...once the pussy's nice and wet, prise those lips apart
and slip in the other fingers....
  
...encourage your lady to rub her clit as you slide
your thumb inside her pussy...
  
...be firm, but gentle, as you fist your lady to an
explosive orgasm!
  
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Some
may ask why this topic would be included as Edge Play.
We consider edge play anything a couple would not normally
do that could become a dangerous activity if not done
without proper preparation and precautions. While this
is not edge play to us, it would be too many that will
read this. Also, there are inherent dangers involved.
This activity should only be undertaken following appropriate
research and study. A word of advice: Take your time.
Do not rush this type of play. It often takes several
sessions and much patience to achieve total insertion.
A
friend asked me (Eowyn) a question the other day. This
friend knows that I enjoy vaginal fisting. She'd tried
it recently and found that she loved it as well. Before
she asked her question, I could tell that there was
a problem. Her question was, "Has LBO ever cut
you? Accidentally? You know...on the inside?" She
was rather embarrassed to be asking, but I was ever
so glad that she did. Apparently, her partner had a
ragged fingernail and it had cut her. The bleeding had
stopped almost immediately, but a clot of tissue came
out with the blood. This worried me. LBO had never cut
me, but I knew that a cut in that particular area had
to be quite unpleasant.
I
was worried about the risk of infection and told her
that she should see her doctor as soon as possible.
She said she'd already made an appointment for the next
day. I was greatly relieved to hear this. It had already
been three days since the accident had occurred. I gave
her a bit of advice on future vaginal fisting play and
things that she should be prepared to tell her doctor.
I
didn't get a chance at that time to ask my friend if
this was her partner's first experience with vaginal
fisting. It would have answered a few of the other concerns
that I had. If he'd done fisting like this before, then
the cut was, in my opinion, plain carelessness on his
part. LBO always makes sure that his nails and cuticles
are as smooth as possible before we engage in this activity.
If my friend's partner was a novice at this as well,
he may not have realized just how important this really
was. Maybe he'd not done any research on vaginal fisting.
They may have both been caught up in the moment and
it just happened. I'm not really trying to find excuses
for why this happened. I'm just trying to find, in my
own mind, how it could have happened.
I
later found that, yes, it had been his first experience
with fisting. Also, her doctor didn't find any infection
from the cut, but put her on antibiotics just in case.
She didn't have to tell her doctor the whole story.
She was able to "get away" with telling her
doctor it had only been one finger inside her and not
an entire fist. All in all, my friend was very lucky.
This
accident prompted a lot of thought and discussion on
our part. And in large part prompted the writing of
this article. Anyway, the following is our "how
to guide" to safely enjoy vaginal fisting. While
it may not be all encompassing, we hope it will at least
answer the majority of questions you may have and serve
as a guide to get you started.
Use Your Fist and I Am Yours!
or
May the Fist Be With You!
By Lord Black Orchid and BlackOrchids
eowyn
From
OrchidsLair.
Copyright © 2001 Lord Black Orchid and BlackOrchids eowyn. All rights
reserved. Used with permission at Forbidden Compounds.
There are myths and misconceptions related to and about
this kind of play. First, some women may have a difficult
time visualizing a fist going into their vagina and
it not being painful in the extreme. What they may be
forgetting, if they have had children, they have had
something much larger than a fist going out of
their vagina. Yes, during pregnancy, those bones will
separate in preparation for birth; but they never go
back to their original position. With each time they
give birth, those bones get a little bit wider. Also,
women who have never had children can enjoy vaginal
fisting. It just takes a little more preparation before
the actual 'event'. We'd look on it much in the way
of preparing for anal play. The opening must gradually
be widened. The bones at the vaginal opening WILL widen
a bit if things are done correctly. Some might think
that vaginal fisting would make having sex less pleasurable
for their partner because the inner muscles would be
stretched. This is not the case. The muscles don't get
stretched out of shape. In much the same way that a
body builder's muscles will become toned and firm, so
will the vaginal muscles. (Sort of an added bonus, wouldn't
you say?) The main difficulty with vaginal fisting is
getting in.
Secondly,
the vagina rarely creates enough of it's own
lubricant to allow a fist to be inserted comfortably.
We have done this once without lubricant and it wasn't
nearly as pleasurable for Eowyn as those times that
we did use lubricant. As far as lubricants go, you can
use either a water-based lubricant, or a petroleum-based
lubricant. The water-based lubricants (like KY) are
less messy; but they tend to break down and become rather
sticky. Petroleum-based lubricants (like Vaseline) work
well, but they can promote the growth of cultures within
the vagina. Additionally the petroleum based lubes breakdown
the latex gloves thus increasing the chance of infection.
We
often use fisting as a way of ending playtime rather
than the center. Thus the actual performance begins
when Eowyn is totally relaxed, and in a high state of
excitement. There are a few things you will need to
have readily available. First and foremost is lube and
lots of it. This is one case when more is good! Make
sure it's warm. Now is not the time to go for shock
value. That can come later if you're so inclined. Place
the bottle (or tube) in a bowl of very warm water so
that it can come up to at least room temperature. Not
only will it not send the fistee into shock, it makes
the lube more slippery. Also a small mist bottle to
help control the stickiness is essential. When/if the
lube starts to break down, simply mist a little water
(make sure it's warm as well!) on your hand and continue.
We normally use just plain KY Lubricant. Since it's
water based, it tends to break down after a bit and
cause friction that, while not painful, can be a bit
uncomfortable at times. We are currently on a quest
to find a water-based lubricant that does not breakdown
quite so quickly and holds consistency without the stickiness.
(Any suggestions would be welcome.) We will publish
the results as soon our "test" is over. If
Vaseline or the like is used, a thorough douching should
follow within the next few hours to help prevent the
growth of cultures.
We
also highly recommend using latex gloves. There are
two reasons for this: First, a lubed glove is much more
slippery than a lubed hand. Second, there is always
the risk of infection when some strange object is poked
into areas that are "environmentally" sensitive.
As we all know, these types of infections can become
extremely difficult to be rid of and can become quite
debilitating before you even realize there is a problem.
For those that have latex allergies or sensitivities,
gloves can be omitted when both partners are absolutely
certain and willing to bet their
life that all other precautions have been
met. (I.e. The nails are clean. There are no cuts on
the hands that can pick up or spread infections. Both
participants are disease free.) If you're not absolutely
certain that these conditions have been met, there
are other types of gloves (nitrile or vinyl) that can
be used. Make sure you have a couple of clean towels
or box of tissue close at hand. Finally, we recommend
having bottles of drinking water close by. This is hard
work and you can build up quite a thirst!
The
pre-flight check....
The
first step is a close inspection of the hand to be used.
Nails should be clean, short, and smooth. LBO's nails
are kept well below the end of each fingertip. They
are smoothed and buffed with appropriate emory boards.
Do not overlook the cuticles. They should be soft and
pushed back to the nail bed with no ragged edges. (You
might ask why this is so important if gloves are going
to be worn. Ever hear that saying "condoms can
break"? Well guess what, so can gloves.) Those
with long nails who wish to keep them long do not have
to cut them off or abstain from being the 'fister.'
Simply take cotton balls and push them under the nails.
Make sure that the tips of the nails are padded as well.
Latex gloves will keep the cotton in place. Sanitize
both hands with commercial grade sanitizer like that
used in restaurants or one of the anti-bacterials like
Betadyn.
Although
it's called "fisting", a "fist"
is not actually put inside the body. Personally, only
someone intending to punish would attempt to put their
fist (with fingers closed) inside another person's body.
Instead, the fingers are left straight until they pass
into the body. Hold your hand out in front of you, with
the palm up. Move the thumb inward to the center of
your palm. Now, slide the index and little fingers inward
so that they are on top of the middle two fingers. This
makes the hand so that it gradually increases in width.
There is a natural instinct to curl your fingers as
they enter the vaginal cavity; thus a fist is formed
almost involuntarily
There
are numerous positions available to facilitate ease
of entry. The first time we tried vaginal fisting, Eowyn
was lying on her stomach with her legs spread wide.
This seems to be the best position for us. Many times,
she'll pull her legs up so that they're partially under
her body. This, in a way, forces Eowyn to keep her legs
apart. IMPORTANT: Closing the legs (and thus making
it easier to clamp those vaginal muscles even tighter)
during this activity could possibly injure your partner.
Any
questions? No? Great! Time for taxi and takeoff.....
As
we have stated previously, this activity is rarely the
beginning of playtime for us, so by the time Eowyn is
in the chosen position there is ample motivation, so
to speak. LBO generally begins by inserting two fingers
inside and begins massaging the clitoris with his thumb.
Being somewhat of a sadist he generally adds a bit of
nipple play and an occasional smack or two on the bottom
to keep things interesting. Eventually he adds a third
and fourth finger. At this point all four fingers are
inside and in the proper position for insertion. He
slowly withdraws his hand, slides the thumb into the
center position and slowly begins sliding his hand in
and out of the vaginal opening, stopping only when meeting
the resistance of the pubis bone.
Now
a bit of Biology: for those that do not know or just
forgot, the most sensitive area of the vaginal opening
is just inside the inner labia. All of the stimulation
at this very sensitive area will increase the natural
lubrication. This combined with the extra lube will
eventually allow your hand to slip inside with little
resistance. As the hand slides inside you will have
a natural instinct to curl the fingers into a proper
fist, with the fingers closed into the palm and the
thumb outside the fingers. Just a note here from personal
observation. Unless you have no further need for that
hand, this is not the time to practice orgasm
denial!
(Personal
note from LBO) Eowyn once asked, "what does it
feel like when you have your hand inside of me?"
I've got to say it is a difficult sensation to describe.
It is as if your hand is in a very warm and moist balloon.
The balloon is filled with something akin to a long
ago product called Oooz, and all the air has been vacuumed
from the balloon. Each time you flex or extend the fingers
you feel this marvelous massaging action engulfing the
whole hand. Now, add these sensations to action resembling
holding down a bucking horse intent on ripping your
hand from the wrist. Throw in the feeling of your wrist
in a muffler clamp and someone is using a pneumatic
drill to tighten the bolts. Put all these together and
you've got a reasonable idea of what it is like as the
fruits of your labor pay off.
Unfortunately
we must interject another bit of biology here. The funny
feeling little cone-shaped thing you feel as you extend
your fingers the first time, is the cervix. We'll not
bore you with the details, but this little critter is
the exit of the birth canal. Some women find it highly
stimulating to have this massaged or touched. Others
react in a totally different way, something akin to
a female Attila the Hun suffering the most terminal
case of PMS you have ever seen. Also, the time a woman
is in her cycle will determine her reaction. Therefore
tread easy!
So
what now? There are a few things to keep in mind at
this point. First, the vaginal opening should now be
sufficiently stretched to allow you to completely withdraw
and reinsert your fist. However, remember to tuck your
thumb and "point" the fist.
Secondly,
remind your partner to take a deep breath every now
and again. Sounds silly, but Eowyn tends to take very
shallow breaths and hold them. This is not a good time
to pass out from lack of oxygen. Thirdly, make sure
you are adding lubricant and utilizing the water in
the mist bottle. By now, most are breaking down and
while the natural lubricant is flowing by the river
it will not be enough for extended playtime. Finally,
watch your partner carefully for signals of pain. IMPORTANT:
If there is pain STOP! When done correctly there should
be no pain.
Pressure
and strange feelings yes, but no pain.
So
there you are, in it up to your wrist so to speak...
now what?
(Another
note from LBO) Eowyn was also insistent in knowing what
pleasure I derived from this form of play. As many of
you know, my nickname for her is the million-question
sub. Truth be-known, I get very little sexual satisfaction
from this play. This is her favorite playtime activity
and I get an immense amount of pleasure watching her,
as her orgasms are off the ricketier scale. There is
one side benefit to me that does generate tremendous
satisfaction and pleasure. Eowyn can take almost infinite
pain when my fist is inside of her. I am able to smack
harder and longer with any toy that can be used with
one hand and in close range. As a sadist this is a definite
plus and is probably why it is a rather common way for
us to end playtime.
(Note
from Ewoyn) If you've never been fisted before, you're
probably sitting there wondering how it feels. It's
actually a difficult sensation to describe. There are
several sensations happening at once. First there is
the incredible feeling of fullness. Every little movement
made by your partner's hand is felt. You can almost
feel the contours of the fist inside; feel where the
knuckles are. And you know those wonderfully sensitive
tissues right inside the inner labia? As your partner
turns his/her hand, you can feel the bones of their
wrist caressing those tissues. When this happens, my
first instinct is to clamp down on that wrist just as
tight as I can. This is not a really good idea though,
because now that wrist can't move quite so well. The
vaginal muscles are stronger than most would imagine.
Other than the gspot massage (which we'll get to in
a moment), most of the sensation of vaginal fisting
occurs just inside the inner labia. Having LBO's fist
inside me is a sensation unlike any other. It's a very
intense experience, both emotionally and physically.
So
what now you asked? There are no right or wrong techniques.
Begin by flexing your hand and slowly rotating your
wrist or extending your fingers and stoke the soft silky
walls. Remember, virtually any movement is going to
create exquisite sensations for your partner. Let your
imagination be your guide.
We
will share a favorite of ours. Carefully extend your
fingers, and begin to massage the area behind where
the clit would be located. If you move your fingers
side to side you should feel a tiny little section that
has the texture of sponge. Wahla! The mystical and elusive
G-spot! Our favorite position is Eowyn draped across
my lap, belly down, with her legs drawn up under her
or spread wide. This is a great position for what we
are about to describe. LBO will usually spend as much
as thirty minutes prior to beginning this activity.
By now Eowyn's ass is usually a bright red, the nipples
are super sensitive and orgasms are rolling through
her one after the other. LBO slowly slips his fist from
her leaving all four fingers inside and places his thumb
directly on her engorged clit. The area we have identified
as the G-spot should feel slightly puffy. He begins
to simultaneously massage the clit and the G-spot. This
puffiness soon disappears with a tremendous output of
moisture, similar to male ejaculation. DO NOT STOP!
This activity is the equivalent of milking a penis or
prostate gland and the "sponge" will continue
to fill and empty for extended periods of time. Be prepared
for an explosion of moisture, as it is not unusual to
feel it squirting inside and soaking any and everything
in sight. Another note from personal experience:
Do not try to remove your fingers during a particularly
violent orgasm. There is enough pressure being exerted
to actually break bones. So relax and enjoy watching
your pet, you will get your hand back... sooner or later!
(Note from Eowyn:) LBO actually had to tell me to let
him go once. I was floating back to earth, enjoying
those little ripples of sensation from the aftershocks.
I had to have had the biggest smile on my face. Then
I hear my Loving Lord and Master chuckling and saying
softly, "Precious, you're going to have to let
go. I can't get my hand out if you don't." I didn't
even know that I was still hanging on.
Landing
gear down, approaching the runway...
As
with any other activity, aftercare is very important.
Not only is this type of play intense physically, it's
also a very emotional experience. The first time we
did this, it was nearly an hour afterward before Eowyn
was truly back among the thinking and functioning. You'll
also need to keep an eye out for swelling. Yes, there
will be some. The inner labia will feel a bit puffy
or "thick" for a few days. It's nothing to
be overly concerned about; just keep an eye out to make
sure it's gone in no more than three days. There will
also be some tenderness for a day or two. But it should
not be painful. (Note from Eowyn) It almost feels
like the day after you lost your virginity. Not really
painful, but you know it's happened.
(Note
from Eowyn) We once tried a little experiment to keep
down swelling. LBO took a condom, filled it with water,
tied it off, and then hung it in his freezer. After
our play, he took it from the freezer and ran some water
on it (to keep it from sticking to the skin). He left
the condom over the ice. Knowing that LBO is a sadist,
you can guess what he did with it. I've got to say that,
personally, I'll take the swelling any day over the
shock of that ice sliding inside me. The shock of it
sent me straight to tears. Granted, it did reduce the
swelling that I would have normally had. What it also
did was send me crashing back down to earth. So, unless
you're feeling particularly sadistic, I don't recommend
using the popsicle condom method to reduce swelling.
Finally,
a few reminders and tips.
Go
slow. Taking your time will ensure an enjoyable experience.
Use gloves and lots and lots of lube.
When using petroleum based lubricant you need to remember
two things. One, it will break down latex gloves. Two,
douche thoroughly within a few hours.
If there is pain STOP!
We're
going to take a tip from the Boy Scouts and talk about
another kind of preparedness. Let's say that you've
met all of the other safety precautions and you've still
had an accident of some sort. Maybe, like our friend
mentioned above, you've been cut on the inside. Be prepared
to tell your doctor how this happened. You might, like
our friend, get away with the 'only one finger' story.
However, (started to say "on the other hand"
but it seemed just too much a pun) your doctor may see
through that story right away and insist on the truth.
Be ready to calmly tell him/her the truth. But only
as much of the truth as he/she needs to know! You don't
have to tell your doctor that you've involved in BDSM.
(Yes, we know. If you've got marks from other...ahem...activities...then
you might have to spill it.) Just be ready to, as calmly
as possible, tell your doctor that the cut was caused
when - not just one or two fingers, but an entire fist
- was inside your body. Now be prepared for your doctor
to throw a bit of a fit, which he/she may well do. Doctors
can get kind of picky about the things that we put inside
our bodies. Again, stay calm and listen to what your
doctor has to say. He/she might give you a nice little
lecture, along with possibly some antibiotics for your
injury, then send you on your way. It may be embarrassing
to have to go to your doctor for an injury such as this.
But would you rather go now, or after that little bitty
cut has become a raging infection?
Also,
if there is an accident of some kind, keep your partner
informed about its progress or lack of progress. When
our friend was injured, her partner was quite upset
by the whole thing. He felt a terrible amount of guilt
that he'd caused her to bleed and need a trip to her
doctor. You may be upset that this has happened to you,
but remember that it didn't happen when you were alone.
Someone else was there and they will be worried about
your well being.
As
you've probably already found, we enjoy this activity
a great deal. The orgasms achieved are simply off the
chart. Also, the fact that Eowyn's pain tolerance seems
to be nearly non-existent during this time is a plus
that we both can appreciate. Is this activity for everyone?
Probably not. But if you are going to try it, just remember
to take your time, use lots of lube, keep the lines
of communication open, and be as careful as possible.
Have fun. Be safe. And may the fist be with you.
Note
after the fact: March 3, 2001...As to our search for
a better lube, we've found one that we really like.
It's called Probe and can be purchased at Good Vibrations.
An 8.5 ounce bottle is $9.00 plus shipping, handling,
and any applicable taxes. It has the consistency of
precum (of all things). It's very slippery, doesn't
break down nearly as quickly as KY, and doesn't leave
the skin all sticky. We were also sent several samples
of other lubes with our purchase and we'll get around
to trying them out one of these days. We're frankly
enjoying the Probe too much to risk using one of the
samples and being disappointed.
-
By Lord Black Orchid and BlackOrchids eowyn.
From
OrchidsLair.
Copyright © 2001 Lord Black Orchid and BlackOrchids eowyn. All rights
reserved. Used with permission at Forbidden Compounds.
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